*gah* back to the money woes and arguing. r took yesterday off of work and picked up tomorrow so we have to reschedule our mediation.
my car wasn't maintained while r had it and i just had $920 worth of work done on it. he wants me to use "my" money to fix it. or put it on a credit card "like everyone else." i have managed my money very well since he left (like always). why should i be punished because he is thousands of dollars in debt? tell me, why!? he's dicking me around about the number we settled on months ago because he doesn't want to work so hard. he says i need to get a job. he seems to think everyone in my life is going to babysit our children (for free) so he can work less AND not pay for daycare. right.
i am visualizing money coming freely into my life. money is heading my way SOON. r is a reasonible and kind human being (somewhere, very deep - work with me people). he is capable of finding a better job. he is going to find a better job before august 15th. when he works less, for more money, the pressure will be lifted from us both. we will be kinder to each other because we won't be so stressed. okaye?
my car wasn't maintained while r had it and i just had $920 worth of work done on it. he wants me to use "my" money to fix it. or put it on a credit card "like everyone else." i have managed my money very well since he left (like always). why should i be punished because he is thousands of dollars in debt? tell me, why!? he's dicking me around about the number we settled on months ago because he doesn't want to work so hard. he says i need to get a job. he seems to think everyone in my life is going to babysit our children (for free) so he can work less AND not pay for daycare. right.
i am visualizing money coming freely into my life. money is heading my way SOON. r is a reasonible and kind human being (somewhere, very deep - work with me people). he is capable of finding a better job. he is going to find a better job before august 15th. when he works less, for more money, the pressure will be lifted from us both. we will be kinder to each other because we won't be so stressed. okaye?